Maybe you’ve heard the term bondage before, but don’t really know what it is. but don’t worry, we created this post in order to help you better understand how it works and of course to take your relationship out of the monotony.
The good news is that the practice is not painful unless the couple opts for some adjustments including sadomasochism, but this is not mandatory nor responsible for all the pleasure. The simple and traditional mode is enough for an extraordinary pleasure.
To obtain better results with the technique, it is essential to use some auxiliary objects — we’ll mention them all in the course of the past — but nothing too complex, and with creativity, you can improvise everyday objects.
To learn more about this practice, read on and ask your questions.
What is bondage?
Bondage is one of the practices of BDSM, East Mistress London, and consists of giving pleasure through sexual domination, using erotic games, clothing, and objects of submission as an instrument.
Submission is one of the erotic fantasies to be put into practice. At this point, you can play both the dominator and the submissive role.
It is up to the couple to immobilize various parts of the body or just specific parts. Remember that this practice does not have to be painful.
In order to practice, it is essential to have confidence in your partner and you must also come to common sense to share the roles, that is, see who will dominate and who will be dominated.
Is it too extreme?
The truth is, it depends on what the couple finds exciting and you are the one who sets the limits. However, there are couples who reach more complex stages and others who can only do bondage in the simplest way.
But that’s not a cause for concern, after all, the main point is pleasure, the stage doesn’t matter.
How to start practicing bondage?
First of all, it’s a good idea to consult your partner and see if he or she approves of the idea. If everything is fine, always start with the simplest and if you both like it, you can move on to more complex steps.
Whoever is in a position to command, also creates the rules, or otherwise, he will have to comply with them. The second step is to live the character without fear. No fears or shame!
You must be wondering why this, right? Well, the objects or actions that will be used at the moment together, can hurt or not receive approval from who will be dominated, so creating a code is an excellent way to express yourself and avoid inconvenience.
By speaking this code, the dominator must end the act.
Be smart and careful when practicing bondage, never put the rope around your partner’s neck, this way we avoid unpredictable risks.
Also, be careful with the knots so as not to interfere with the circulation of those who are tied. Never overtighten them. For best precaution, keep scissors nearby to cut the knots in case the rope hurts.
Accessories for practicing bondage
There is no protocol to follow, so your imagination can guide you perfectly through this step, but don’t worry we’ll give you some tips on which accessories to use.
Of course, the first step is to tie your partner’s hands, in which case you can use rope, handcuffs, a tie, or even a scarf. If the woman is in charge of the situation, we suggest wearing sensual lingerie to stimulate your partner visually.
You can also use items to blindfold those who will be stimulated and even gags to increase eroticism. In addition, the use of erotic products such as vibrators and lubricants, etc., will help a lot at the moment.