Although the Fifty Shades of Gray franchise has opened the world to BDSM practices, there are still many myths surrounding this universe. Yes, it is true that some actions are violent and even dangerous. But what few people really know is that not all of them necessarily cause pain.
Experts have already proven that sex begins in the mind, so one of the main actions of sadomasochism is the psychological game of domination and submission. Author Lani Queiroz, the bestseller of erotic books on Amazon, in her new novel, Princess of Innocence, explores BDSM and has separated seven practices that do not involve any kind of pain.
sensory deprivation
This practice is a type of immobilization. The partner deprives or impairs one of the other’s senses through the use of blindfolds, masks, gags or headphones. The intention is that the submissive, having one or more senses impaired, becomes even more sensitive to the dominator’s stimuli. I bet a lot of people practiced this type of BDSM and didn’t even know it, right?!
immobilization
While sensory deprivation impairs one or more senses of the partner or partner, immobilization impedes the other’s movement. Whether with the tie, ropes, chains or handcuffs, this practice allows the dominator to have 100% control over the dominated, allowing him to play or not erotic games with the immobilized person.
Restrictive Rules of Conduct
Not saying certain words, wearing props or a type of collar that indicates that the person “belongs” to someone, not wearing a certain type of clothing. These are some examples of rules that the dominator can establish for the submissive. Remembering that everything must be consensual, by mutual agreement between the parties so that the experience is pleasurable, ok?!
roleplay
This practice consists of the couple embodying characters and interpreting situations that lead to excitement. Doctor and nurse, boss and employee, firefighter and young girl in danger. Let your imagination flow and enjoy the moment.
tickle
It may sound a little strange, but “tickling”, as it is known in the sadomasochistic vocabulary, is a kind of punishment. The “torture” is applied to the dominated, usually immobilized, to test the resistance of the other to the goosebumps.
denial of orgasm
This practice can also serve as a type of punishment for the submissive person, also usually done while the other is immobilized. The dominator must have full attention and know the partner’s body to know when it is reaching the peak of pleasure. Basically, you need to get as horny as possible and when you realize that the underdog is about to come, it’s time to just stop everything!
Podophylia
This is a very common practice among BDSM practitioners, which is why, in many sex games, the feet are used a lot. They can be barefoot or wearing sandals, leather boots, stilettos. The practice also consists of member worship, the dominated can kneel down and kiss each finger
